Things you must do before sleeping with a man – When you do it can make ALL the difference. When is it okay to have sex? How do you decide? This is such an important conversation! You may think “I’m not even dating yet … who cares!”
But the decision may be closer than you think, and I want you to be prepared. Sex can be a glorious part of a relationship, but for women, it can also wreak havoc on your emotional state. Having sex too soon can also mess up an otherwise budding relationship.
Getting this right is about clearly defining the boundary and behavior you will follow under all circumstances. This is key to maintaining your dignity and confidence, not falling for the wrong guy, and keeping safe. Here’s some advice:
1. Know what you want and keep your eyes on the prize.
Are you looking for frolic with a great orgasm or for a loving, decent man to spend your life with? Figure it out and always head toward that goal. (Just like you do in the other aspects of your life.) And be sure you’re not headed there alone.