Just in case you don’t know who a biS3@.x:’ual lady is, a biS3@.x:’ual is someone who is S3@.x:’ually attracted to both S3@.x:’es. They’re commonly tagged, people who swing both ways. Quite naturally, we want to ask them lots of questions, and the most curious one is about S3@.x:’ of course which gender is better at S3@.x:’.
Danielle Page, AskMen asked a couple of biS3@.x:’ual ladies these questions and below are their responses.
In terms of Lubrication, Women are better
“I lost my V!rg!nity to my college girlfriend, and after we broke up the next person that I slept with ended up being my guy friend. If we’re being honest, we hooked up less because I was attracted to him and more because I wanted to get over my ex. She and I had been together for so long that it never even occurred to me that lack of lube would be a hurdle to overcome when sleeping with a guy. Everything needs lube. Oral needs spit. Hand jobs need lube of some kind. Eventually I started to get dry (it was break-up S3@.x:’, what did I expect?) and so even our intercourse needed lube. For me, it’s a huge turn on that the women make all the juices necessary to keep things moving smoothly.” – Erika, 24
Men are simpler to deal with during S3@.x:’ than women
“I only ever dated one girl while I was in grad school. Whenever we slept together things felt good…but there were all of these steps to getting it done that we had to go through. She was really into using toys, so we’d take turns using a strap-on and different vibrators. But she was also a clean freak, so we were washing toys in between using them on each other (which would kill the mood). I know that women always get made fun of for this, but she’d also want to talk for so long after we both finished. Eventually I started craving that simplicity that comes with hetero S3@.x:’.” – Sam, 25
Women kiss way better than men
“There are a lot of differences between sleeping with men vs. women, but the one that gets me every time I get on a guy kick and then find myself hooking up with a girl is the way that they kiss. Women are much better kissers. Everything is slow and soft, and they pay attention to how you’re reacting to everything. Men have this one-size-fits-all approach. Like, the last woman they made out with never complained, so this must be great! Needless to say, kissing a woman gets me way more excited to sleep with her than kissing a man does.” – Kayla, 27
Men pay more attention than women
“This might be a personal thing, but I’ve noticed that when I sleep with men, they can’t take their eyes off of me, whereas when I’m sleeping with a woman, I’m the observer. Maybe it’s because men are more visual, and maybe because in general I find the female body more attractive. But that being said, there’s nothing that makes me feel as hot as when I’m riding some guy and he can’t look away. It’s really so different than when I’m sleeping with a girl, and there’s this total attention shift.” – Erin, 26
Women know how to use their hands.
“Women have the unfair advantage here – because they know their way around a V@.g!na. I’ve slept with dozens of women and never once have I ever came across a chick who couldn’t get me off with her hands. But most men are awful at it. I’m always grabbing their hand to try and get them on the right track. Which of course, becomes a whole thing when it doesn’t need to be. If I’m at a bar and I’m vibing with both genders, nine times out of ten I’m going home with the lady, because at least I’ll be guaranteed an org@.$m.” – Sabrina, 31
Looking at the scenarios above, ladies have 3 points while guys have 2 points. 3-2 is the final score.
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